I spent seven weeks in State College; when I got home, I found a beautiful, funny, confident, capable and courageous five-year-old. In my absence (or maybe because I grew fonder), Anna perfected taking care of herself, telling funny jokes, and entertaining herself for hours with creative play. Sure the house was a mess, but when I cleaned, I found hidden "I love Mummy" cards and letters everywhere.

To top off the hugs and letters, Anna turned five on Tuesday. We had cupcakes at Kindercare and the party was so cute. In fact, the party was hilarious. Between Anna and her sly jokes and her teachers' excellent sense of humour, I was in stitches. First, during mat time, Anna got to stand in front of the class and tell everyone about her birthday, presents, and where she's going to school next week. After the Q and A, Anna said sideways "there's a song you can sing to me."

Teacher Emma laughed and said "let's wait for the cake." Before the cake, hand washing, a Maori blessing (which Anna said by herself perfectly pronouncing 10 lines of Maori verse!!), and fruit. I asked Teacher Adele to translate the Maori words for me (Maori words are full of vowels and very pretty), so she took out the dictionary and started laughing. Not being bilingual, she translated the first line as "bless this potato peeler." We still don't know the English version, but here's Anna waiting patiently to say the blessing and eat her fruit.

Finally, fruit eaten, it was time for the birthday song. Almost. Adele got out the matches to light the 5 candle, and Teacher Holly launched into a discussion about what to do if the kids found matches on the floor. The boys suggested light a fire, but Holly eventually elicited "give the matches to an adult" from them. Adele (matches in hand) asked if the fire safety course was over yet because it really was time for the song (gotta love that British humour). Yay! The Birthday Song! Happy Birthday to You Anna!!

When Anna blew out her candle, Holly asked what she wished for. Anna said she didn't wish for anything because she had everything she wanted. To which Holly said, "not even world peace?" Ok, those teachers are hilarious. I left feeling proud and entertained and totally happy. My little girl has arrived at five fully content. She even got the chocolate icing stain off her dress herself before I left (without prompting!).